For single guys, take it from an old man who is 6’5”, stud back in day, & all that nonsense. Was always told “Get it out of your system before you get married”. Here is reality for you young 20 year olds. 1) You don’t get it “out of your system”, you get it “in your system”.
@BowTiedBroke I noticed that guys with a lay count in the hundreds say ‘all women are the same’. The truth is, they lost the ability to appreciate the uniqueness of each woman by treating them like they’re interchangeable. I’m glad I failed to become like them.
@writeawareness 100%! Great wisdom!
@BowTiedBroke Would love to hear you elaborate on this
@Digitalattntion Read through the comments. Did tons of elaborating on it via my responses when I first posted it and tons of comments came in.
@BowTiedBroke Been telling my buddy this forever… I have never been the promiscuous type despite having the ability to be. Way more into monogomy and devoting your life to someone + vicer versa. My friend of mine has the opinion that alternative lifestyles still make people happy. I disagree.
@MarketGawd People (like me) just trying to fill voids inside, thinking that will fill the void, yet it just leaves you emptier.
@BowTiedBroke One of the best things I've ever done was catching myself before I threw away a great girl bc I was allured by the idea of constant novelty with different women. Luckily I recognized novelty didn't bring me happiness. We're now married and expecting our first child 😊
@DurableCashflow Awesome! Congratulations on the new born!
@BowTiedBroke So don't smash wild qussy enmass? Is dat what u saying?
@DogeBrogan Ya
@BowTiedBroke The post is slightly unfinished, but what he means is that once you get acclimated to a lifestyle, it’s hard to leave it. Finding a good girl and getting married doesn’t suddenly change the way your brain works. You get used to the constant dopamine rush. Trying to have sex with
@Brouhandas You must have missed my follow up responses on that post
@BowTiedBroke > You don’t get it “out of your system”, you get it “in your system” what do you mean by that?
@ExistenceStudy The adrenaline/dopamine rush of “newness” gets somehow embedded inside of you. Guys think getting married “fixes” that adrenaline desire. The more it’s done before marriage/relationship the harder it is to control after you enter into a relationship/marriage.
@BowTiedBroke You'd be surprised how much "in your system" comes to mind since I've read this tweet. It's been a few months, but I literally hear it in my head a few times a week
@GenghisJon1 It’s just like any drug…most people don’t get that..until they’re my age and have wrecked marriages, lost jobs, etc … because of chasing that adrenaline rush
@BowTiedBroke What is the advice🙏🏾?
@al_Qemist Find someone you really like, that you click with, laugh with and have fun with, and stick with them. If you have a tendency to stray, get in a group of guys who look out for you and will hold you accountable. Surround yourself with people who lift you up.
@BowTiedBroke 7’8” here i feel u bro. 14” below the belt im a fucking studdddd
@seant4864 The man!
@BowTiedBroke I had the exact opposite experience
@Paulsy1963 Everyone is different, just like some people can get wasted every weekend in college and not become alcoholics, some can be promiscuous as hell, and not have it creep back up later in life. We all have different thresholds…the issue becomes, none of us know exactly where that
@BowTiedBroke You tell big truth the manosphere grifters won't admit. I always refused casual sex, but seen many guys, friends, get utterly BROKEN on hookup culture. It's not alpha, you're not Genghis Khan, you're just disfiguring souls. Ask Roosh; he wrote the BOOK on hookup, then burnt it.
@BowTiedBroke It's easy to not cheat when you don't have options When you constantly have opportunities, you need to constantly remind yourself this
@BowTiedBroke Worth a follow, great piece of advice.
@BowTiedBroke you a real one
@BowTiedBroke yea it's basically like doing drugs
