Your chivalry is an experience women must earn to appreciate. Never go out of your way & be extremely chivalrous to please a woman who hasn't proved herself to you yet. Save your chivalrous gestures for women who happily follow your lead.

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2. Winning her over: If you're trying to win her over, you've already lost her. You're not there to impress her. You're there to present yourself as an opportunity for her.

3. Showing up late: Men who show up late are sloppy. If you want women to respect your time, set an example & show them how. You're also not going to create a relaxed vibe on the date if you're in a hurry because you're late.

Getting to the date earlier also sets you up for success in two ways: A. You get time before she arrives to choose the right place to sit close to one another (more physical escalation.) B. You can connect to the people in the spot for more social proof & positive vibes.

4. Taking her & the date seriously: Your attitude towards the experience should never be serious. Be positive, fun, & playful. Act too serious & this date will end up being a boring interview with no possibilities to emotionally connect.

5. Spending too much money: The first date is meant for you to explore her as an option for you. It is also meant for her to explore your character & see why it's attractive. But this will never happen if you lead with your wallet.

6. Splitting bills: As a Man, you're in charge of creating fun experiences for women. Don't ask her out & then have her pay for the experience YOU have created. "𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘵? 🤓" Weak af.

7. Talking more than listening: Women are emotional beings who love to connect. And they do most of their connecting through talking. If you talk more than her, you bore her & block her from connecting to you.

8. Texting her too much before & after the date: You can check that she's back home after the date - that's thoughtful. But, in general, don't text her unless it's to set up another date. Give her time to think about you.

9. Letting her change plans: If a woman changes the time & place of a date for no important reason.. Never proceed with the date. Doesn't matter how hot she is. Let her dictate the interaction & she WILL lose attraction for you.

10. Postponing flirting: You're on a date with her because you're attracted to her s*xually. Act like it. Approach her with a seductive look & tone and flirt with her all night long. Tell her how s*xy she looks & physically escalate whenever possible.

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@ResilienceOfMan Chivalry works as long as you’re not a simp about it. If you’re doing to impress her or please her it will backfire. If you’re doing it because it’s who you are as a man it still works great.

@beastmodedating This is a better explanation. 👌

@ResilienceOfMan Men should avoid these mistakes at all cost.

@ifot_ibibio 🤝

@ResilienceOfMan If you can't afford to pay the bill on the first date, You shouldn't be dating in the first place. Fix your finances.

@MenMindMoney Facts MMM. Don't create what you can't afford.

@ResilienceOfMan As Men never show up late. It's your duty to lead her to the date.

@masculinegloww Exactly MG!

@ResilienceOfMan Chivalry is dead in modern dating. If you still try to be chivalrous, girls will take advantage of you.

@b2amindset 🤝🤝 Always be aware of who deserves what.

@ResilienceOfMan Real men create memorable experiences without expecting women to foot the bill. Step up and show your leadership by treating her right. Period.

@MedeirosPanther Facts. You create & lead, she joins & follows.

@ResilienceOfMan Dating rule: Never stop flirting with her.

@MrAcezzz One of the most important rules. 🤝

@ResilienceOfMan Avoiding these first date mistakes can certainly pave the way for a smoother and more enjoyable experience.

@MenOnMission_ Agreed MoM 🤝

@ResilienceOfMan Excellent thread ROM!

@LivingWomanizer Thanks LW!

@ResilienceOfMan No splitting of bills, that's the cost of doing biz

@Vanessaluvo Exactly!

@ResilienceOfMan Excellent thread mate

@ManOfStxxx Appreciate it brother