That also means women are probably not gonna be useful here. But also, men who pay IG thots to hang out with them or men who admittedly don’t get any are probably just as useless in the advice arena

@CartoonsHateHer The kicker is they refuse to listen to these men.

@LizzyStarrrdust Many such cases

@CartoonsHateHer i attract women by being retarded on twitter

@CartoonsHateHer They accuse you of being a turbo chad, no matter what

@CartoonsHateHer Maybe just my experience but I find men insecure abt dating just generally accuse men of trying to help them of being turbo-Chads regardless of whether they are or not

@adsfig5 True lol. Then if you have some non-Chad cred (like being short) suddenly “chads can be short.” Lol

@CartoonsHateHer That's the origin story of the Red Pill. Guys would exchange notes in forums on what worked and field tested those ideas for themselves. Eventually a fairly decent praxeology was created.

@CartoonsHateHer yeah, exactly, like short bald men with offputting internet personas

@CartoonsHateHer my biggest advantage in being a dating writer is the gap between my enthusiasm for the game and the difficulty setting I'm playing on

@CartoonsHateHer I used to read game books in the aughts (clearly forgot it all). I think the best advice givers are the guys that were incel when they were younger that grew into being alphas. They’re not true alphas since high school trauma permanently damages you but they see how things are

@CartoonsHateHer I am that man. Here is my advice: 1) Be fit. Anyone can do this, and it increases your attractiveness and confidence. Bonus for having well-toned muscles (I am a rock climber). 2) Dress well even when you don't need to. If you don't know how, find someone who tells you what

@CartoonsHateHer I recommend they do online dating the summer right after the COVID vaccines came out

@CartoonsHateHer I can teach it because I too was once terrible at it.

@CartoonsHateHer That’s me, I’m more of a tall 6’7 Brad type. Open to discussion but I’m not gonna echo anything you think about it I’m sure

@CartoonsHateHer the advice would be "act like you think women are people and just kind of listen to what they say" and those types of guys don't actually wanna do that

@CartoonsHateHer i mean this in the nicest way because i do love your content but arent you in miami rn. like shouldnt you be having fun offline

@washedsheets Baby is sleeping and I’m at the hotel watching her!

@CartoonsHateHer Rizz is roughly as heritable as beauty is the real black pill

@CartoonsHateHer The guy who is 5'9" and works at a grocery store but still racks hella notches: what's he doing?

@CartoonsHateHer Go find the successful threes and fours of your gender to gain your dating wisdom... ofc, I have a feeling our general answer is going to be "I got lucky", but hey, we all do.

@CartoonsHateHer Best advice comes from men who are good with women. Everything else is secondary to useless.

@CartoonsHateHer obvious problem with this is that guys having a hard time dating will probably listen to the Jock flexing his body count, not to the average guy in a healthy relationship + the latter is also much less likely to go online and dish out dating advice to begin with

@CartoonsHateHer Idk just let women talk about themselves it usually works for me and I have the autism debuff

@CartoonsHateHer we used to have a “fat balding ginger” pulling baddies and now we have neo-Islamist blackpillers iykyk

@CartoonsHateHer I think I might fit that mold. Married nerd with a high body count. The secret is... confidence and a sense of humor. Go figure.

@CartoonsHateHer 100% agree and I've said this for years. I am not going to trust dating advice from a 6 foot tall Thor lookalike. If he's 5'6" Asian dude with a former sorority girl gf I'll listen

@CartoonsHateHer Is being taller than 6 ft and having a good job an easy mode lever? The discourse usually leads me to think that, but I feel like there are single dudes like that too. My advice is to actually go outside and meet other people (very obvious and very stupid I know). My wife and I

@CartoonsHateHer The guy I know like this is a total loser, can't hold a job more than 6 months, and has had multiple girlfriends (including one that was married!) move in with him and pay his rent.

@CartoonsHateHer This is true. I think tone is also important. "Here's how I succeeded despite shortcoming X" goes a lot further than "listen up you piece of shit, you're literal human garbage because you're not getting laid".

@CartoonsHateHer hi i actually have something like this planned on the backburner (was like turbocel and sort of fought my way out of it? still suck but made progress)

@CartoonsHateHer Incels complain about "the friend zone," but being friends with a bunch of women is actually a great way to get to know women. LEGITIMATELY be friends with them and they will set you up with their friends. Don't be nice to them just to get in their pants, you're not a good actor.