If one claims to be a Hellenist, then this entire “bodycount” discourse was settled about 3,000 years ago, when the Greeks decided that only virgin women were suitable for marriage. The ancient Hellenes refused to marry nonvirgins. It’s just a silly discussion.
Female promiscuity reliably tracks with mental illness and disease, and it’s naturally repulsive. Men have found it to be disgusting for thousands of years. The average woman between ~5,000 BC and 1800 either had one sexual partner their entire life, or were prostitutes.
“Female promiscuity” for most of European Civilisation’s history meant that a young couple were overtaken by passion and didn’t wait until their scheduled wedding night – and that’s because the conjugal act was thought to be marriage unto itself.