TW// MANIPULATING / CHEATING/ BETRAYAL / CAR ACCIDENT NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE / 18+⚠️ What Ilya Kashkova a.ka. Abirtha Mirdyana did to me a thread
It started all when YouTube recommended me her Titanfall montage to me 2 years ago. I thought that she was cool so I followed her on Twitter. We started interacting a little bit together, talked about fighter jets and got along pretty well.
Instagram recommended me then her PL account on the 9th March and i followed her. She reached out to me the next day and we started chatting. After not even a week she started sending me couple reels and other messages and since i never was in a relationship i accepted them.
We got closer and decided to exchange WhatsApp numbers. We went on a FaceTime night drive together on the 21st March and started chatting about lots of things since we share many interests and we started to always send random selfies to each other.
We went on night drives together and we started Dating and FaceTiming regularly. She started then calling me petnames after only knowing her since 2 weeks and asked me to be her „uwawawa“ to her „Wiwiwiwi“ since she saw that meme with those kitten sounds.
Until one day she started to make NSFW jokes and told me how much she wanted me to be here and be „skin on skin“ with . This was the time she sent me also some more revealing pictures and videos of herself.
She confessed that she wants to meet me to do unthinkable things to her, that she loves me, sent a 2:30minute voicemail saying how much she loves me and said I she is my Girlfriend. It made me melt away and fall for her.
She started tempting me with voicenotes and nude photos. Telling me how it would look like if I would „hit her from behind“ and other stuff
After that we talked about planning how we could meet each other irl and spend some time together. Bcuz she’s in Indonesia and I’m in Germany. She suggested that we should save up money for meeting each other.
I finally bought the flight ticket to meet her in Indonesia. About a month later she asked me to cancel the flight bcuz of her „financial“ status and that she would be „busy“ but I said it is okay as long I could meet her and spend some time with her.
I landed in Jakarta and she picked me up. I spend some time with her on the first day, after eating something together and bringing my stuff to the hotel we went to her apartment, got drunk and had sex. She brought me to the htl the next day and left me for 2 days alone.
After that we met again on the 13th. On Sunday I found out that she was hiding her IG story from me. I checked it and saw that she posted another guy. She told me not to worry bout him bcuz he’s „just“ her „mechanic“
She finally told me that shes forced to marry that guy bcuz her dad said so. She said that she fought with her family for me but it didnt work bcuz of different cultures. So she rather decided to hide the truth for 1 month and lie to me. Spending time with him and drifting away.
She said that her family „fancy“ him but he’s not her type. And she hid the story to „keep my heart safe“ instead of telling the truth from the start. She had to keep it up since her dad and brother are using IG to.
We met again after she spent 5 days with him on a cruise and on the beach. When spent some time together in the following week. On the day of my departure we got in a car accident driving to the airport. I was the passenger and almost got killed by her reckless driving.
She asked me if she could blame the crash on me bcuz I’m a foreigner so police cannot sue her. And I said yes that I’ll help her. She asked me for ID, Psprt and plane ticket. I gave her everything she asked so she can be safe.
After that incident she asked me not to contact or text her. And when my flight returned to ID bcuz ISR-IR war she was hurtful with her words blaming me for what happened. Even tho I just wanted to support her. She apologized again and said Cu in August.
On last Saturday I asked her how she’s doing and she broke up with me on Sunday saying the Cuck had found out about her and me on my IG and accused her of cheating on him (wich she did) I’m confused. Who exactly was cheating on who? And she blamed me bcuz I posted with her.
also i found out she was still with her ex after we get together, so basically she cheating both of us, she broke up with the guy on 3rd april, but she send me nudes on 01 april and sexted with me while she was with him. Kinda crazy if you ask me. Bcuz I am very shocked.
Her best friend dm me and said I was the one ruining her life bcuz „I crashed the car“ I wasn’t even the one driving and it’s her own fault for driving reckless and tired. Its insane that’s she spread the rumor to people like that. I just tried to help her from the police.
After that a lot of people reached out to me that experienced similar trauma from her. I am so disappointed of this women and what she’s capable of doing this just for her own ego. I’ve never met such a narcissistic, manipulative and egocentric person in my life.
I had so many sleepless nights bcuz of her. Lost about 10kgs of weight. Had to call and message so many friends about what happened to overcome the trauma she has done to me and I finally decided to speak up about that twisted „human“ being called Abirtha Mirdyana.
I‘ve made this thread not for revenge but for justice and Awareness to what she has done and what she can do to someone and others. I hope you guys don’t be so stupid like me and fall for Abirtha Mirdyana. And here are some google docs with more proof and evidence about victims.
Another victim speaking up
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