Published: August 25, 2025
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Stop lying to yourself. You don’t actually want to get better. If you did, it would show. Your habits prove you’re a liar. You want people to comfort you, to nod their head, to tell you “it’s okay” while you recycle the same excuses over and over again. You don’t -

Accountability, you want sympathy. You don’t want growth you want comfort. And the truth is, you’ve confused being “on a journey” with actually changing. To the point some of you would hop around from apartment to apartment, state to state , partner to partner

Swearing it’s a new start with the same old issues inside of you. Same beliefs , habits , same responses , Spare the damn vision boards. Spare the manifestations and affirmations you never back up with action. Spare the journals you only write in when you feel guilty and the

podcasts you binge but never apply. If your belief was real, it would show in your dedication. It would show in your progress. It would show in your work. It would show in the gym pictures you never took because you quit after two weeks. It would show in the 30-day challenges

you swore you’d post but abandoned halfway through. It would show in the project you claimed you’d finish but let collect dust. . It would show in the relationship you swore you’d leave but can’t, because you don’t even respect yourself enough to prove you deserve better.

You swear you want change, but your actions scream otherwise. They scream: “I’m committed to my comfort. I’m committed to my excuses. I’m committed to my bed. I’m committed to a mediocre life.” You’re not failing because you can’t- you’re failing because you don’t give a damn

You don’t believe in discipline, you believe in the bare minimum. You don’t believe in success, you believe in talking about it. Daydreaming, hoping and wishing

plans. Stop announcing your goals. Stop hyping up the “new version” of you that never lasts longer than a week. Nobody believes you anymorenot because they’re haters, but because your track record speaks louder than your words. If you truly believed in yourself, you wouldn’t

need to spread the news or beg for validation. You’d just do it. And your results would speak louder than any caption or conversation ever could.

You’re not stuck because life is unfair. You’re stuck because you won’t stop lying to yourself. And until you stop performing healing, success, and growth and actually live it • you’ll keep failing. Not because you can’t, but because deep down, you’d rather stay comfortable

than actually rise. Stop thinking you know everything, stop feeling so fucking attacked by every single thing, start asking questions, start getting curious , start wanting to prove your own damn self wrong!

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@AkashasLair The moment you stop comforting your own excuses is the moment healing begins. You don’t need permission to change,you need courage to tell yourself the truth. Your future self is waiting on the other side of that honesty.

@AkashasLair Wanting isn’t enough. Doing is the only proof

@AkashasLair Show it through your actions, not words.

@AkashasLair okay bb you ain’t have to read me to absolute tears today but you are so right

@AkashasLair everyone applauding this whole time it’s extremely distasteful lol.. no compassion, just shame and insults. the reason a lot of ppl are stuck in cycles is bc they’re shaming themselves already. i hope this doesn’t reach the wrong person and make their healing process even harder

@AkashasLair You don’t want progress, you want permission to stay weak. Excuses are your comfort zone, and comfort is killing you. True men show up, act, and change the narrative of their lives. No handouts. No pats on the back. Only action. Let the lies end. Step into reality.

@AkashasLair You didn’t hold my hand 😒

@AkashasLair If I could pin this to my forehead for the rest of eternity chile I would . You ate

@AkashasLair Hey buddy… Fuck you

@AkashasLair Shut up bitch

@AkashasLair this whole entire thread! clocked itt

@AkashasLair Damn, why am I crying lol

@AkashasLair Some people just will never change

@AkashasLair wellll damnn!!! Thank you I internally know this, but hearing it from someone else hits different

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@AkashasLair Well shit!!!! Said all that I've been wanting to say 💪🏾

@AkashasLair Damn. Who you mad at?

@AkashasLair You didn’t hold my hands🥹😔

@AkashasLair idk who made you this mad

@AkashasLair That was personal

@AkashasLair Keep scolding me like this I deserve it 🙏🫡

@AkashasLair can’t do nun but nod & 🙂‍↔️

@AkashasLair A very direct and wake-up call message! It’s a reminder that real change starts from within and doesn’t happen just by talking about it.

@AkashasLair Read The Whole Thread & You Cooked! 🤏🏾😮‍💨

@AkashasLair Needed to hear this 🙏🏾💯

@AkashasLair You ate this up !!!! 🫶🏾

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