One of the most frustrating things when learning game as a busy professional was the lack of time to get rapid results I was exhausted from the night game outings after doing work all day long and then studying for my licenses I need for my line of work Day game was very
1. The opener -Openers are simultaneously the most important part but the one you want to spend the least amount of time on Your goal is to simply grab her attention in a chaotic sea of endless simpy, boring, and thirsty messages So yes you will want to use a bait, creative
2. It’s ok to double text, just do it in a calibrated way If she didnt respond to a question, then make sure you followup on the question and don’t let her get away with not answering it A simple “?” Or putting a ? on the message if you use iMessage will work Wait 48-72 hours
3. If a girl is acting up, do a takeaway or call out If she repeatedly keeps dodging your date invites, tell her that you didnt take her for being a flake. Or if she keeps giving wishy washy answers you tell her that “are you always this uncertain about plans” What that does is
4. It’s fine to respond instantly to a girl better to get her when she’s right there on the app or near her phone than it is to try to look “cool” and “busy.” A true alpha doesn’t give a fuck about this and he texts whenever the hell he wants to The marginal benefit of a
5. Banter for a bit to bridge the opener to the soft close I know a lot of you love logistics texting But I can tell you, as someone who did logistics texting only... there is a price to pay for taking the easier path and doing this exclusively You screen in too many time
6. Learn Soft close Get her to agree to the general idea of meeting up with you before proposing a specific day and time “We should get together sometime soon” “We should split a bottle of wine soon” “We should grab a coffee soon” “We should get a drink soon” This is classic
7. Hard Close Once she’s agreed to the idea of getting together, now you can move to requesting a higher effort response from her Simply as for her schedule “What evenings are you free” After she tells you then you suggest the day and time that works for both of you
8) Keep warm if date is more than 3 days out Quite to the contrary of what you hear on the internet, girls are not as cocky deep down inside as they seem They will assume you’re gonna flake if you dont keep things warm Ideally you want the date to be that night or 1-2 days out
9) Remind her the day before For the same reason you want to do a mid week check in as explained in the previous section…. “Got something cute to wear for tomorrow?” “Looking forward to meeting you tomorrow ;)”
10) Confirm the date You’ll see a lot of conflicting views on this one As someone who has done this for a decade, I promise you it’s ok to do a confirm “Still good for 730?” If it’s just too painful for you to do this because muh the coolest guy ever would assume the date is
And there you go There’s a whole lot of technical mastery that goes into being an advanced texter, but all of that covers enough of the fundamentals so you can be well equipped to regularly have success with online dating And remember, it’s just as critical to get that