there’s a pandemic of single men slowly hitting 30s and 40s and still unmarried. Guys, what’s going on?
@DearS_o_n There’s no “pandemic” of single men, there’s a generation of men who finally saw through the scam. Why marry when divorce courts gut you alive? Why settle when modern women bring attitude, debt, and body counts instead of loyalty, peace, and virtue? Why sign your life away when
@DearS_o_n I would say the decision that what women want out of a man is unrealistic possible by only illusion of men in their brains..the looks the money the presence and also available but not too available
@DearS_o_n It’s not a pandemic; it’s a pause. A lot of men aren’t broken or bitter. They’re just waking up. They’ve seen marriages fall apart, watched friends lose custody, and felt the pressure of being “enough” in a world that keeps raising the bar. So instead of rushing in, they’re
@DearS_o_n The market is gonna implode in mid 26 and my politicians want me dead. Why tf would I wanna raise children in this world? It’s basically child abuse at this point.
@DearS_o_n I’m 51. Here’s the truth: most guys aren’t afraid of marriage….they’re afraid of marrying wrong. Better to be single than trapped in a life you didn’t choose. Commitment isn’t the problem. Settling is.
@DearS_o_n Some men have checked out completely and give up. Some men are unwilling to get legally married in the Western world where it’s basically a legal and financial booby trap.
@DearS_o_n The so-called “pandemic” of single men in their 30s and 40s isn’t failure-it’s rebellion. Men aren’t broken. They’re not unwanted. They’re not confused. They’re finally done being walking wallets, emotional trash cans, and disposable providers in a rigged system. They’ve tasted
@DearS_o_n Remote viewers are fucking up the lives and minds of good people. In which ever way they they think is their path in remote viewing to happiness in doing cruelty.
@DearS_o_n The institution of marriage within the government has failed, the psyops of feminism and emasculating men has claimed some, and those that object become apathetic. We need to bring back the institution of marriage under God. It’s the only way, and most Gen Z men see this I think
@DearS_o_n Men are realising that marriage doesn't benefit them as much as it benefits women. Most modern women are into relationships and marriage to escape poverty. They set high standards that even their brothers cannot meet.
@DearS_o_n We’re sick of dealing w hoes who are trying to pose as housewives
@DearS_o_n It’s not that they can’t find women. It’s that they’ve started to SEE THE COST. They see marriages ending in courtrooms. They see men losing half their income and access to their kids. They see modern dating turning into a negotiation table instead of real connection. So a lot
@DearS_o_n They scared of responsibility
@DearS_o_n The dating landscape has evolved, with online platforms and shifting social dynamics influencing how relationships form. Some men find it challenging to navigate these changes.
@DearS_o_n Just the consequences of all the innocent blood we've shed for short-term profit. It's only going to get worse and the best thing for people to do is to study the book of Job and self-reflect.
@DearS_o_n Women are reverting to harem behavior. Stuck in "situationships" by their own delusions of inflated self worth.
@DearS_o_n Onlyfans explains a lot
@DearS_o_n If you don’t want kids then there is literally zero reason to need or want to get married. The only reason anyone should be getting married is if they are planning to have children.
@DearS_o_n The pandemic of single men in their 30s and 40s exists because the game changed. Marriage today carries huge risks. Divorce can ruin a man financially and emotionally. Men see this and hesitate to commit. Many focus on building money, health, and purpose first. They don’t
@DearS_o_n Men are choosing to stay single because the cost of modern relationships often outweighs the benefits. Marriage used to mean loyalty, family, and shared values. Now it often means financial risk, legal traps, and emotional chaos. Too many women bring entitlement without
@DearS_o_n When a man waits too long at the riverbank, the water he came to fetch may dry up. Many men delay marriage chasing perfection, stability, or fear of commitment. But time doesn’t wait, priorities must be balanced. Building wisely with the right partner often matters more than
@DearS_o_n Divorce taught us once was enough. Watching our friends go through it just sealed the deal.
@DearS_o_n Becuse marriage is a big scam and a relationship is just a bill.. They don't make them like our fathers and mothers did!😭
@DearS_o_n Marriage used to protect men from risk. Now it’s the risk. No house, out. No car, out. No status, out. By the time you pass every filter, you don’t even want the prize anymore.
@DearS_o_n People just don’t wanna get married anymore. Nobody believes in marriage anymore because we see the divorce rate spike up every year.
@DearS_o_n Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free
@DearS_o_n women suck obviously. like beyond nuts.
@DearS_o_n stupid question
@DearS_o_n Many men spent their 20s distracted, chasing comfort instead of building themselves. Now they hit their 30s with no foundation. The fix? Focus on growth, fitness, purpose, and financial stability, marriage will follow when you’re ready.
@DearS_o_n Boys who can shave……
@DearS_o_n Nothing, just wising up.
@DearS_o_n There’s something broken in the culture that only the women can fix.
@DearS_o_n In one word feminism Many sons have grown up father deprived Seeing their dads destroyed by their own mother via the Family Courts Every institution that created healthy young men has been destroyed or infiltrated. Two examples: YMCA & Boy Scouts
@DearS_o_n It’s not a lack of options it’s a rise in standards. Men are waking up, choosing peace over chaos, purpose over pressure. They’re not lost… they’re building.
@DearS_o_n Been married been there done that never again
@DearS_o_n They are living a good life. Why should we be worried?
