I'm done being nice about this, male and female socialization isn't a fucking thing. There's just Patriarchal enculturation. As women are defined by what we ostensibly lack from men per this masculinist religion so too does every little trans girl become staught about her
womanhood contra the traits she is told she is failing to perform appropriately as an intended larval moid and/or disciplined into performing against her will. "Boys don't cry" implicitly means "but girls do." "Boys aren't suppose to like pink" implicitly means "but girls are."
"Boys don't wear dresses", "Boys aren't supposed to like Xena", "Boys aren't supposed to prefer the company of girls", etc etc This is the nature of a rigid binary class system.
@Sinister_Sophia reminds me of lacan when he said "the women does not exist"