If your first spicy text is “send a pic 😏”, you’ve already lost. Get her imagining why she should send anything. “I had a dream about you last night. Not safe to describe here.” Then shut up and let her ask.

2. Stop texting her like you’re just checking in Never send some weak “hey just seeing how your day is” That’s maintenance. You’re not maintaining anything yet. Hit her with energy. Something unexpected. Example: “Behave yourself today. Or don’t. I’ll deal with you later.”

3. Use time zones to your advantage In the middle of her boring day, you drop: “I shouldn’t be saying this right now but… you just popped into my head. That thing you wore last time.” Makes her blush while at her desk.

4. Don’t compliment her like a simp No “you’re so hot”. No emojis. No “you’re perfect.” Instead: “That little smirk you do when you’re pretending to behave? It drives me nuts.” Specific. Dangerous. Makes her self-conscious in the best way.

5. Don’t ask for nudes. Paint them “Bet you look dangerous in black right now.” “She has no idea how good she looks lying there thinking nobody notices.” Her imagination is filthier than your camera roll. Let her use it.

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6. Stop replying too fast. Ever. You hit her with something hot… and then you disappear for an hour. You’re now giving her time to feel it, replay it and wonder what you’ll say next. Patience is a turn-on.

7. Tease her, don’t worship her When she sends you a pic: Instead of “🔥🔥”, say: “Cute. But I expected more danger from you.” Make her feel like she has to work harder to impress you.

8. Say less. Let her fill the silence. Don’t write novels. Don’t overexplain. One bold line is better than 3 paragraphs of safe fluff. “You looked like trouble the second I met you. I was right.” Then… stop. Watch what she says next.

9. Flip her words back on her When she says she’s innocent, "Uh huh. You’re the kind who makes it worse by pretending not to know.” She will laugh, deny it, and already start feel guilty about how turned on she is.

10. Save the dirtiest lines for when she’s already invested Too soon and it’s creepy. Drop it once she’s laughing, teasing, playing. “Be honest… how many times have you thought about me f*cking you already?” That lands when the timing is right.

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