What I call “The Candy Bowl Problem” is the reason why Indians, who almost no one in the our country thought about 25 years ago, are increasingly hated. During Halloween, kiddos go door-to-door saying "trick or treat" and receive candy. Sometimes, a person isn't home and so they
@RupaliChadhaMD Your generalization has no grounding in fact.Stereotyping in this manner is http://gross.It’s the same generalizations that people say about all races, religions, the police or left/right. Stop being a divider -America is great even though we’re diverse we can unite
@RupaliChadhaMD Yes, they’re exploiting a vulnerability. But what they’re REALLY doing is violating trust. Trust is a vulnerability extended knowingly. It is an intentional opening up. It’s saying “I’m letting you get close enough to what matters that you could harm me and those I love, I know
@RupaliChadhaMD Vishal Mangalwadi talks about high trust societies in his book “the book that made your world”. He gave a similar example for milk on a dairy farm. Great book. Read it twice @Mangalwadi_V
@RupaliChadhaMD @VBierschwale The footage of people scraping freshly poured asphalt into containers to take for themselves is really something else. Completely astonishing behavior, that you would degrade the road that goes to your own house for some even more parochial purpose.
@RupaliChadhaMD Stop generalizing as if everyone takes from Candy bowl. Few bad apples exist in every country. And by the way when did Gurgaon became India's Silicon Valley?
@RupaliChadhaMD Stupid sermonizing morons like y'all dont remember that India and China together were the "economy" of the world till the "high trust" white racists bastards looted it to the limit ... so take that advice and shove it where the sun dont shine ...
@RupaliChadhaMD It's really that simple, and applies to everything going on right now. Tariffs, mass deportations, USAID shutdown, etc. Our generosity was taken advantage of, our people suffered as outsiders agitated and plundered, and they called us evil for noticing. That's now ending.
@RupaliChadhaMD Same as the shopping cart test. There is no consequence if you don't return it. Returning it doesn't make your life easier or better. However, it doesn't take much effort and returning it, instead of leaving it around the parking lot, improves the life of others. Someone who is
@RupaliChadhaMD That perception of being clever, or not a pendejo, is the same all around latin america, if you do the right thing, you are a fool
@RupaliChadhaMD @AJA_Cortes This mentality also explains why it’s the scam call center of the world. They have no empathy or shame, they believe if they can trick or fool you then you are the fool and you deserve to have your money stolen.
@RupaliChadhaMD This is why I really am an ethno-nationalist; the cultural differences are just so significant that, beyond emigrating at a VERY young age, you just can't catch up to the cultural norms of the place you move into. Some can but, no rule can screen out those who cannot.
@RupaliChadhaMD The marshmallow test should be a requirement to get a visa into the US.
@RupaliChadhaMD I live in a very-high-trust, mostly white neighborhood, zero-Indian neighborhood. Shockingly, some kids took all the candy from the bowl in front of my house.
@JohnJSSoriano Their parents need to smack their hands like my momma did when we were young. Kids need to be taught. The analogy is saying adults are behaving this way.
@RupaliChadhaMD The candy bowl is the modern version of Aesop's fable about the goose that laid golden eggs.
@RupaliChadhaMD That’s why in India, no one in their right mind leaves out a bowl of anything on the honor system.
@RupaliChadhaMD I leave an empty bowl out during Halloween with a sign that says take one. Then I shut off the lights and go to bed.
@RupaliChadhaMD It's a famine culture. A group of Indian doctors at a hospital became known as "the locusts." Whenever an executive meeting had extra food, it was put out for the staff. But if one of "the locusts" came, they'd put all of the food into a bag and take it away. Famine culture.
@RupaliChadhaMD It is sad but that mentality is becoming more prevalent worldwide and that isn’t the mentality America was founded on. True American culture dictates the golden rule. “Treat others as you want to be treated “ Abide by the Ten Commandments. If everyone abided by the ten
@RupaliChadhaMD Liberals would say that you're espousing a racist Christian nationalist viewpoint. But... we have built our nation on a foundation of trust. People who don't understand that trust won't fit in. Hopefully any exploitation of it is met with misfortune.
@RupaliChadhaMD Thank you! I worked as a cashier at a large wine store and they would come to the register and want to haggle over the price! Or asked for freebies.
@JoGelinas Ooof. America invented the price tag! Just wish we had price tags in healthcare. 🙏🏼
@RupaliChadhaMD Qanat you are seeing is a byproduct of the Cast system. The lower cast are thankful to be here. The upper Cast treat America the way they treat their home country.
@RupaliChadhaMD Sorry but ur white washed and not on any higher moral ground... first let's start with all the "native candy that was stolen", identify the culprits, then we can carry the dialogue further....
@RupaliChadhaMD Now that we have gotten a taste that something can be done bout this H1b and all mass immigration (as the Bush's, Romney's, McCain's, cucks were always telling us) we are never letting go. Just this bone thrown to us by Trump as all we needed. There is no going back. We can do
@RupaliChadhaMD @VBierschwale Another good test is to visit your local Costco and watch how many return their carts to the cart return area. Much like their country of origin, they simply leave the carts (and often their trash) wherever they want. This test also applies to many peoples of 3rd world origin.đź’©
@RupaliChadhaMD It's true months ago my interactions concerning scanning our elderly were met with them staring how naive and stupid our elderly are. Elderly raised in a culture of high trust and helping one another. Our culture is incompatible. It's literally why they love our country but
@RupaliChadhaMD Divide and conquer, Indians are extremely traditional and integrate with American societies morals. Rich white kids are the absolute worst. No discipline or morals, and parents who constantly excuse their mistakes
@RupaliChadhaMD You hit the nail on the head. Importing people to high trust societies from low trust societies is disastrous. It worked in the past since assimilation happened. Take an Indian and put them in a suburb of only Americans and he learns the culture quickly and modifies his behavior
@RupaliChadhaMD Also Indians are more concerned about diaspora and Desi enrichment than assimilation. H1B has not brought the best and brightest over unfortunately. Also green card immigration scams has brought millions over as indentured labor to work in hotels gas stations etc..
@RupaliChadhaMD Years ago I worked at Home Depot and one of them was a customer building a large house. He scammed the system and us over and over. The most memorable was when he ordered many 5 gal buckets of paint, refused it, then bought it when it was sold as oops paint.
@RupaliChadhaMD It's no secret how Halloween works, and the rules don't change just because no one is watching. If they come to MY doorstep appropriating MY holiday they had best know what the rules are.
@RupaliChadhaMD That's the issue we are having in Canada. We expect people to follow the rules and the recent Indian immigrants don't follow rules or laws Previous Indian immigrants from decades ago, that were educated in British schools learned this prior to arriving
@RupaliChadhaMD And the nepotism is so boldly out there. Indian management and suddenly everyone is Indian.
@RupaliChadhaMD I really wish I could show this post to my new Indian boss.
@RupaliChadhaMD My 22 yr old calls Indian immigrants “ladder puller uppers”. I think he’s on your page.


