@ywomendeservles I'd rather talk about my issues with a random animal like a squirrel in a park before opening up to women
@ywomendeservles Chris Rock: “Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something.” We’re not here to be heard.
@ywomendeservles If you open up to a woman she will use it as a weapon against you at some point. This has been my experience, and the experience of every man I’ve talked about this with.
@ywomendeservles Sometimes I feel like my wife is an NPC… weeks and sometimes a month when her problems are paramount. When I’m having a problem, I don’t feel the love, compassion, and patience is reciprocated in the same way. So then I just go to the garage and tinker
@ywomendeservles Tried that... doesn't work. Now I talk it out with my best friend. Bro never judges or uses it against me
@ywomendeservles Women resent you for making them feel stressed if you share your difficulties. They want a sense of security, anything that detracts from that is resented. There’s no logic to it, it’s just their simple emotional and reflexive nature. Strength = respect , weakness = rejection.
@ywomendeservles Broooo, EXACT same thing happened to me last week. I helped her a bunch, she ask me to open up about my emotions, I opened up, she run away. She said, she needs someone with emotional availability, and she could NOT be there to support me to learn emotional availability WTF.
@ywomendeservles Telling a woman your issues is just handing her ammunition for the next time she gets angry
@ywomendeservles This is a very important post for men to see, and read through the comments section. Men are naturally stoic for a reason. The feminisation of men has ruined a generation.
@ywomendeservles Top 3 common reactions: -Blame you for it/using it later against you -Losing attraction/respect for you cause they see it as a weakness -Crying and feeling like shit cause they didn't know you felt that and now you have to cheer them up Never compassion or reaffirmation
@ywomendeservles I've only gotten 2 different responses opening up, but they both lead to the same conclusion. She loses respect and breaks up. 1. She doesn't get it and tells me to "man up" and makes it about her. 2. She makes it about her. Thats it.
@ywomendeservles Opening up emotionally to women?
@ywomendeservles My own mother expressed disgust at me moderately crying on the phone after two of my friends died in a freak accident. The guy was my neighbor and surfing buddy. A month prior my grad school roommate died. Her response? “Oh come on…”
@ywomendeservles I helped my ex emotionally and financially. When she got back on her feet, I lost my job and my grandma... all of a sudden, she started questioning our future together. I don't think I ever recovered.
@ywomendeservles What women say they want and what they actually want can be complete contradictions and they are perfectly fine with it. Women do not hold themselves to having rational logic the same way men do. This is why they should not be allowed to vote
@ywomendeservles Breaks my heart to read these comments. If I found out my husband wouldn't open up to me, that's a clear sign I failed at being a wife. We laugh together, we smile together, we sing together and you bet your ass that if my husband is crying, we're crying together. We are as 1❤️
@ywomendeservles Never trust an animal that can bleed for a week, and not die.
@ywomendeservles It’s so funny that women don’t realize men open up to each other ALOT about deep and personal stuff. They think guys never do that because that’s what the TV portrays men as but all the guys I know open up about tough times with their close guy friends
@ywomendeservles We are facing a few generations of women in a large majority that have been trained not to see men as people or even creatures with heart. This mission was created by the leftists long ago, and we need only look what they did to the Black American dinner table to see one part of
@ywomendeservles If you betray a man, regardless of your relationship status, when he is being vulnerable, you will never see another emotion from this man except anger
@ywomendeservles The problem men get into is thinking women operate on the same moral high ground men are required to. Women only serve their survival. We call this selfish in our culture.
@ywomendeservles Women will always at some point make you pay for whatever vulnerability one might display.
@ywomendeservles Shortly after getting back from deployment, I broke down one night thinking about the guys who didn't come back...my wife didn't say anything, just held me. Never talked about it again. This isn't meant to brag, but to provide some hope that there are good Christian women out
@ywomendeservles My therapist lol.... he's much bigger now and more opinionated....
@ywomendeservles I was begged to open up when I never have before. I trusted and did what was asked and was immediately dumped. The only person most men can rely on in this world is themselves.
@ywomendeservles Most women are like the cops when a man opens up to them--everything he says can and will be used against him.
@ywomendeservles Women don’t want to hear when a man is struggling… they immediately want to leave.
@ywomendeservles I never ran out on my man's troubles, we get through it together. I was the woman with depression and he saved me from my own demons. No way would I abandon him. He's fought cancer for 4 years, got a complete laryngectomy, doesn't even look the same and I'm not going anywhere.
@ywomendeservles Dogs are man’s best friends and their best therapist. I had a Golden Retriever named Daisy. I could tell her everything. She never judged or threw it back in my face. Thanks to her, I could be the foundation for my family and never show weakness nor doubt.
@ywomendeservles Bitches have no concept of reciprocation, being steadfast or loyalty. The moment any kind of perceived difficulty, she’s on to the next branch. Trust that.
@ywomendeservles It's all a trap. My wife saw a video on work place accidents and deaths. She was shocked by the numbers and how often it happens to men. I never told her about the half dozen close calls and almost getting hospitalized or killed on construction sites. She asked, I told her about
@ywomendeservles As a man, experience has taught me, nobody cares how your day is going or if you are depressed. You are expected just to lump it and do what others need you to do. If you need sympathy, it's best to get a dog.
@ywomendeservles These replies are unbelievable I also found out the hard way. Often times when you discover this it’s too late and you are married with kids If women weren’t so soft and beautiful I would hate them
@ywomendeservles Opening up go women is a trap. Why give them a part of you that they will, in turn, turn around and weaponize against you.
@ywomendeservles Don't open up to any woman other than your mother. While it would be nice if we could open up to our wives/girlfriends, they need us to be strong. Most women can't handle seeing the strongest man in their lives shaken.