10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women 1. Craft your origin story 2. Flaunt your ambitions 3. Create verbal tension 4. Qualify her to establish standards 5. Patience means abundance
10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women, part 2 6. Escalate without flinching 7. Demonstrate emotional control 8. Create more, consume less 9. Courage + skill = authority 10. Confront your sexual core
1. Craft your origin story If your life was a movie, what would be the trailer? You need to have a clear and compelling backstory and an exciting dramatic future. She should want to take part in the adventure called your life
2. Flaunt your ambitions If you don't talk convincingly about your dreams and passions, she will probably think that you're afraid to share them, that you don't believe in yourself so you don't have any, or possibly worst of all, that you're just a lazy and boring guy
3. Create verbal tension You NEED to know how to verbally flirt. You need to create playful sexual tension, subtle and with plausible deniability but unmistakably & shamelessly loaded with sexual desire. Four ways: -Cocky funny -Accuse her -Push pull -Challenge/judge her
4. Qualify her to establish high standards This is where most guys fail. They become so preoccupied with trying to impress her that they forget to ask her tough questions about her own worth and value. Don't make this mistake. Ask her pointed questions based on your own
5. Patience means abundance When you're texting with her, WAIT to reply. Do your best to be patient and not be reactive. Ideally, you want to wait 24 hours to reply to her texts. The person who is less reactive is the person who is higher value. And when you can set the frame
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6. Escalate without flinching Escalating smoothly and confidently, without hesitation or doubt, is NOT easy. Gaining this skill requires a lot of practice, which requires a lot of leads. Watch this video by Jon Sinn on the importance of not flinching as you escalate
7. Demonstrate emotional control A shit test is an emotional control test. Women are hard-wired to put us under emotional stress to see if we break or if we stay in control. If she can shit test you and make you lose control of your calm rational self, then she will begin to
7. Emotional control, part 2 If you can't control your emotions, you're not a man yet, you're still a boy. Mastery over emotions is an important measure of how much you have grown into your full masculine potential, especially with tough emotions like anger, lust and fear
Women can be skilled and savvy at pushing our buttons. I've developed two mantras to help me deal with female frustration: "You're adorable" is a great reply to most shit tests "She is like a child" helps me empathize with a woman's emotional turmoil and her own internal chaos
If you want a concrete example of how "she is like a child" helps me maintain emotional control in my relationship, read this thread about how we got rained on at an outdoor jazz concert in New Orleans https://x.com/alpharivelino/st...
8. Create more, consume less A man is nothing if not an active, in motion, always moving, unstoppable force of nature. Sex is the act of penetration, remember that A woman can be extremely beautiful doing nothing. A man doing nothing is lazy and boring You need to be hyper
9. Courage + skill = authority Women are wired to surrender to masculine power. Or better said, women are wired to surrender to masculine AUTHORITY She doesn't want to follow any random guy. She wants to follow a man who actually know what he's doing. She is looking for a
10. Confront your sexual core Too many good guys end up disconnected from their magnificent sexual power because they deny their "dark" deeply aggressive sexual core Your aggressive sexual core is your life force. Your lust is fuel. If you're unsure or ashamed of your sexual
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A man with a strong identity attracts women A man with a soft identity repels women Here are ten ways to make your masculine identity more powerful, more compelling, more impressive 1. Craft your origin story 2. Flaunt your ambitions 3. Create and hold tension 4. Qualify her
@alpharivelino STANDARDS in GAME > ask her tough questions about her own worth/value Most of masc standards is a non verbal activity where you're screening girls - not as a "technique" - but bcos you actually want better women in your life. If she meets your standards, she stays. No, gone.
@DaysOfGame_com "Most of masc standards is a non verbal activity where you're screening girls - not as a 'technique"'- but bcos you actually want better women in your life. If she meets your standards, she stays. No, gone." Telling a beginner who has zero girls and zero pussy at his disposal
@alpharivelino What is an example of qualifying her?
@alpharivelino A lot of gold my man! But the elaboration on points 7-10 seem to be missing?
@BjornFalken I finished the thread https://x.com/alpharivelino/st...
@alpharivelino ok but what is creating verbal tension? is that just making comments that might have a suggestive undertone?
@alpharivelino 'Have a life beside women.' Your personality will show it itself through your talks, and doings.
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@alpharivelino It's too much effort
@alpharivelino Patience means abundance. Patience is often viewed as a virtue that leads to abundance and personal growth. This is new 🤯