"Is wanting to help others a form of validation seeking?" Short answer, no. Long answer yes. Empathy, wanting others is not validation seeking. That's an independent drive. However, when you need external validation you will try to get it from everything you do. You may like
@YOHAMI Yoh , do you ever see someone being hateful towards you or disliking you in TG as them actually hating you or just like ohh this person is insecure / struggling , etc ?
@dicey_nickel Yes that can happen, some of them here. In real life it's rare.
@YOHAMI “Is not giving a need? It’s not receiving, a mercy?”
@YOHAMI Another value of validation dismissal is synchronization of parallel universes. Makes you stronger, better decisions impact the more you sync. If the king to the beggar versiona do the same thing, the ripple is huge.
@YOHAMI Okay, so can you give an example or activity where, while doing it, you notice how much of it is driven by validation-seeking? And in that case, should I pause or stop the activity — or what’s the best course of action to mitigate that behavior?
@YOHAMI i think this nuance is very useful. i was thinking about these terms bg and tg, and even 'frame.' one of the huge pitfalls if you're a rando who encounters these terms is thinking they are additive, something to be applied on top of the self
@YOHAMI If it's in the way of your win, that's an indicator that you're probably seeking validation. But there are some wants that aren't exactly a win. Ex: I'm tired I want a seat on a bus. There's a lady with a kid who I can see is tired. Is this considered sacrificing the want?
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