@YOHAMI @Stan_chentsov1 @DarkerNox "That side" doesn't even seem to be a "side." It appears to be ME. So deep. If this is lost, I don't even know who I am anymore. It has always been natural for me not to be sociable.

@Matheus27020462 @Stan_chentsov1 @DarkerNox It's not you, it's a frame, you're passing through it, it shapes things.

@YOHAMI @Matheus27020462 @Stan_chentsov1 @DarkerNox I think the difference is that you are a true philanthropist whereas, I am deeply misanthropic

@UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @Stan_chentsov1 @DarkerNox I was a misanthropic for 30+ years.

@YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox You still don't get the topic or you just don't want to see what I wrote. I'll do with examples, it will be black and white: First situation: You meet guys/girls at the pub = you don't know this person and you have little to none interest of knowing, because why? Second

@YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox Any attempt to label that me or Futurismo probably as well. Somehow "hate" or draining while talking to new people is wrong. Who doesn't like to talk to new people? Most of us do like. The setting here makes a difference, again example: would I be interested to talk with

@Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox I quoted you, check it.

@Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox "hat we "must" or we don't do something" There's no must. What you're describing as real is just a frame and it's not you. And you're blind to the alternative. But there's no must. You're still wrong though.

@YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox I can agree only with the part, that everything is the frame and whatever I or You says is in the frame. That's true I know. And the blind part is bad labeling again, whoever here seeks a knowledge/wisdom is looking for alternatives. Doesn't mean blindly accepting alternative.

@Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox Blinding accepting is bullshit, hence I wrote exercises so everyone can try and find out themselves. You can't solve anything by "believing". Kill all belief.

@YOHAMI @Stan_chentsov1 @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox This is one of the most profound things you've ever said (that I've seen) Layers to this one

@UntiedWolfdog @Stan_chentsov1 @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox Which part man, that's so basic X-)

@YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox That's the 3rd time we have a lengthy conversation here and the 3rd time you are convincing me that there is something missing on my side with the way I am interact with people. Each time these convos end up you saying to do the exercises. I can't say that I did them

@Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox Have you ever had a really good convo with someone? A bro or a girl. Everything just flows. Your state is high, authority, lots of exspansion. This should be normal. Every interaction is like that. If it's not like that your doing it wrong. /1

@theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox Mal- this assumes that everyone will always be all good and wanting to talk to you irrespective of whatever else is happening in their lives right then. Sure we can have our party irrespective of who joins but someone who’s depressed n resentful still isn’t coming.

@IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar Watch the people who try to start a conversation with everyone. They are always excluded from the tribe. If a guy doesn't naturally attract people to him, it doesn't make any sense to think that attacking them is the solution.

@DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog Exactly. Because they went there specifically to do that. It's niche.

@DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog In that case, no problem. People are in specific places wanting this. But the conversation started over a guy's objection about being sociable in places where people AREN'T into it.

@DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog I understand that. The only problem is that my and @Stan_chentsov1 objection is that we don't like being social with "anyone." So all the reasoning is meaningless. Because we would only do this for women.

@DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @YOHAMI @UntiedWolfdog We don't like to socialize with "any strangers".*

@Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Because you shrink.

@YOHAMI @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Not always, Yohami. There are more interesting things than wasting time with the average person out there.

@DarkerNox @YOHAMI @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Because I want TG. But it doesn't make sense to me that for that I have to talk to random people who I'm not interested in. Something is wrong either in my vision or in TG's idea.

@Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog You have to let go of BG. The one objecting to change is the BG.

@Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog "random people" whoever is interesting for whatever reason

@YOHAMI @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Because this is an expression of my expansion and feeds the expansion of the other person?

@Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Expansion authority and initiative, the other person responds by opening, being receptive

@YOHAMI @Matheus27020462 @DarkerNox @IFLvvnar @theBOLDmal @Stan_chentsov1 @UntiedWolfdog Please post about the Judgement exercise in details. I need this 🙏🏾