#1: “YOU (GUYS) ARE HAVING WAY TOO MUCH FUN.” Works for single girls or for girls in groups. Works if they’re having a blast (here it’s sincere) or look super bored (now it’s sarcastic). Immediately kicks off a playful dynamic that sucks girls in.

#2: “HEY, LET ME GET YOUR OPINION ON THIS:” Works out shopping (get her opinion on a potential purchase). Works at grocers (get her opinion on adding turnips to a recipe). Works when you have a buddy with you & want a female opinion on what you two were just discussing, too.

#3: “GOING ANYWHERE EXCITING?” This is your go-to mass transit opener. Works on / waiting for trains, planes, and buses. Sets a playful ‘man-to-woman’ frame – just think how weird it would be if a guy asked you this. This is a FLIRTATIOUS conversation between a man & a woman.

#4: “I SAW YOU WALKING/STANDING/SITTING HERE, AND I JUST HAD TO COME TELL YOU [GENUINE COMPLIMENT]. I’M [YOUR NAME].” Your compliment should be on something unique to her self-expression, SUCH AS her ✅ Fashion ✅ Style ✅ Hair ✅ Walk ✅ Energy or vibe

Do NOT use generic looks-based compliments – that means NO: 🆇 “You’re really beautiful” 🆇 “You’re so cute” 🆇 “You’re absolutely adorable” 🆇 “You have gorgeous eyes” 🆇 “You have a massive rack” Etc.

Generic looks-based compliments just feel weird. Just imagine a girl approaching you to tell you, “You have such a handsome face.” What do you even say to that? Stick with compliments on items that reflect her self-expression instead (“You have truly excellent style”).

#5: “HOW’S YOUR DAY/NIGHT GOING?” Simple opener, but it hooks more often than you’d think. Openers don’t have to be ultra clever. Their main role is just to get women talking with you. She will often give you something you can work with, too (“Great!” “Could be better.” Etc.)

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#6: “EXCUSE ME, DO YOU KNOW WHERE THE [SOMETHING OBVIOUS] IS? … I’M JUST KIDDING, I KNOW WHERE IT IS. I JUST THOUGHT YOU WERE CUTE & WANTED TO COME SAY HI. I’M [YOUR NAME].” Where the Starbucks is, where the Panera is – something obvious that is obviously in eyeshot.

When she ‘falls for’ this one and starts to answer (“Uh, yeah, it’s actually right over there…”) that’s when you interrupt her to tell her it was just a joke – you really just wanted to talk to her because she was cute.

(We violate our “no generic looks-base compliments” rule here by calling her ‘cute’, but it’s okay because we just had a tease at her expense – the little compliment is a high attainability move to balance things out after the tease.)

This gets girls laughing, chatting, and immediately sets a man-to-woman frame right from the get-go. Perfect for day game, and very beginner friendly.

#7: “ARE YOU SINGLE?” Alternate version: “Are you married?” If she doesn’t know what to say, tell her “I’ll take that as a yes.” Some girls say “no” when they actually are single – if she stays, she’s curious! & if she wants to know why you ask, tell her, “I’m curious.”

#8: BODY LANGUAGE MIRRORING (NONVERBAL-PLAYFUL) Her arms are crossed and she looks bored? Get in front of her, cross your arms in an exaggerated way, and look REALLY bored. Then sigh. Whatever she’s doing, mirror it – then when she cracks (laughs), deliver Opener #1 or 5.

#9: “CAN I BORROW YOU FOR A SECOND?” You need a group of friends for this. “Borrow” a nearby girl to demonstrate something, such as the ‘elbow test’ (have her extend her arm fully – women’s hyperextend up at the elbow; handy way to tell who’s male or female).

#10: “HI” Oldie but a goodie. The universal greeting. Works when nothing else comes to mind. Can lead to surprisingly solid hooks, considering its simplicity!

Always keep this in mind: The goal of the opener is to open a CONVERSATION. It is not to make a drive by compliment then ask her for her phone number. She doesn’t know you. She’s not going to give you her phone number after 15 seconds. You have to TALK to her first.

Once you open her, keep her talking for at least 2 minutes. • Ask her stuff about herself • Tell her stuff about you • Make a few light teases to her • Request she show you her ring, bracelet, watch, or nails • Invite her to move a few feet with you to “not get run over”

After you’ve spoken 2-5 minutes, then on a HIGH POINT (when she’s laughing or opening up a lot), tell her that the two of you should grab a bite or a drink some time. Then take her contact information. Phone numbers (direct line to her) beat social media (fan/follower).

By approaching with a cool opener you feel comfortable with, And talking to her for a good few minutes first, Then asking her out on a HIGH point, You can do way, way better at meeting girls than all the “rizz guys” on social media do.