@GirlsChase “Historically I’m a little intimidated by good looking blondes like you, so have focused on brunettes. But as I’ve aged up, grown some silver, I think “why not?”, let’s give it a go and have some fun.”

@jamesbohanpitt We want to boil the logic out of this and make it fun plus toss the ball back to her so now she's the one thinking. e.g.: "Usually brunettes. But I don't know, I keep hearing blondes are more fun. Think it's true?"

@GirlsChase I'd usually find something I can tease her about and say that as my type. So if she said she one time got arrested for being drunk in Thailand, I would say "blondes that get arrested for being drunk in Thailand".

@Post_Thirty This is good. Callback humor works great here.

@GirlsChase "Someone impressive and good at keeping secrets." Invites her to qualify and also breadcrumbs some mischief or mystery about me to dig into. Best I can think of in 10 seconds.

@FoxForgerAlpha Not a bad start. It's a bit complex with the two different things there though (impressive, good at secret keeping). Better: "I like a girl who impresses me. So anyway, what's the coolest thing you did this year?" Now she's qualifying!

@GirlsChase I was in Spain and a girl like this was into me like this in the club. I whispered into her ear, "I brought my pet sewer rat from home. Wanna see it?" She then got disgusted. Hahah, pathetic. Her entire night seemed to be ruined by this, and I felt a big sense of satisfaction.

@rancerex Women have a stronger disgust reaction then men, and it instantly dampens sexual arousal. No faster way to kill a spark then grossing her out...

@GirlsChase “I’m usually into brunettes, but I’ll make an exception this time”

@systematic_fun Good! We can sharpen a little by encouraging her to chase without instantly approving of her: “I’m usually into brunettes, but I sometimes make exceptions.” Then ask her to qualify: “Do you do anything sporty / artistic / adventurous / [whatever you want]?”

@GirlsChase Good girls, the stay at home kind. Definitely not you *wink

@CasanovaSecrets The problem is as soon as you get her qualifying to you what a good girl she is, she is going to hit the brakes on the progress and clam up about any dirty secrets she has... just to show you what a "good girl" she is.

@GirlsChase Have you even been around women? They don’t ask this at a party 3 minutes in lol

@Michael99047304 I see you are taking it slow in your conversations, friend.

@GirlsChase please make one thread on male interrupts

@razefanman Male interrupt = pattern interrupts? Or do you just mean replying to these sorts of tests, Bill?

@GirlsChase "Loyal and intelligent" Flips the frame and challenges her on real qualities.

@DegenRepellent Any talk about loyalty is "I am looking for a serious relationship" talk. This is always too much for an initial meeting. Instantly forces you into the "applying for the boyfriend" role, and her into "show him you're a good girl / hide any prior naughtiness" role.

@GirlsChase It's a game graveyard in here.

@iamjerusalemx Yes. I am going to need to do a follow up post here. A few solid replies but it looks like some pointers are in order.

@GirlsChase Tall, skinny, shy and submissive

@A_calm_warrior Too logical! Needs to be playful, fun, while neither qualifying nor overly disqualifying her. Also, "submissive" comes loaded with a bunch of cultural baggage -- dicey using it in the initial courtship. Better to save that for later on (ideally once you've been with her).

@GirlsChase "she must be fun & nasty"

@JTArmah Ooh, the high risk, high rewards play. You're either going to get an enthusiastic or flirtatious response there... or else the total opposite!

@GirlsChase Artsy brunette with olive skin

@DukeHerndon Delivered humorously, I imagine? (That way it is a playful disqualification, rather than a matter-of-fact dismissal.)